môj 5-ročný syn rozpráva zvláštnym archaickým jazykom. nikto mu nerozumie, ale on tvrdí, že ním hovoril keď žil "predtým". má niekto skúsenosti s podobnými javmi? neviem, čo si mám o tom myslieť, ale nechcem ísť za žiadnymi vešticami, lebo im nedôverujem. ďakujem za vaše príspevky.
veríte v reikarnáciu? existujú o nej dôkazy?
a prezradis nam nieco z jeho minuleho zivota?
Advice For Parents of Children Who Claim to Remember Previous Lives
(Please note, the following is intended to be used for informational purposes only, and is not intended to serve as a substitute for professional therapeutic or counseling services)
Parents frequently ask us for advice on how to handle their children’s statements about past lives. While each case has individual differences, we offer some general guidance here that may be helpful, and we are happy to answer questions about particular situations from parents who contact us. These suggestions to parents are intended as general guidance and should not be construed as medical or psychological counseling of any kind, nor as a substitute for counseling or other treatment.
First, it is important to know that these statements do not, by themselves, indicate mental illness. We have talked with many families in which a child claimed to remember another set of parents, another home, or a previous death, and the children rarely show mental health problems. These statements are generally made by children whose development appears to otherwise be just like that of their peers. They can occur in families with a belief in reincarnation or in families where the idea of reincarnation had never been considered before the child began making the statements.
When children talk about a past life, parents are sometimes unsure how to respond. We recommend that parents be open to what their children are reporting. Some of the children show a lot of emotional intensity regarding these issues, and parents should be respectful in listening just as they are with other subjects that their children bring up.
When a child talks about a past life, we suggest that parents avoid asking a lot of pointed questions. This could be upsetting to the child and, more importantly from our standpoint, could lead the child to make up answers to the questions. It would then be difficult or impossible to separate memories from fantasy. We do think it is fine to ask general, open-ended questions such as, “Do you remember anything else?” and it is certainly fine to empathize with a child’s statements (“That must have been scary” when, for instance, a child describes a fatal accident).
We encourage parents to write down any statements about a past life that their children make. This is particularly important in cases where the children give enough information so that identifying a deceased individual that they are describing might be possible. In such a situation, having the statements recorded ahead of time would be critical in providing the best evidence that the child actually had experienced memories from a previous life.
At the same time, parents should not become so focused on the statements that they and their children lose sight of the fact that the current life is what is most important now. If children persist in saying they want their old family or old home, it might be helpful to explain that while they may have had another family in a previous life, their current family is the one they have for this life. Parents should acknowledge and value what their children have told them while making clear that the past life is truly in the past. We do not recommend that children undergo past-life regression hypnosis. (See Concerns about Hypnotic Regression for more details.)
Parents are sometimes more upset by the statements than their child is. Hearing a child describe the experience of dying in a painful or difficult way can be hard, but both parent and child can know that the child is safe now in this life. Some parents may be comforted to know that the vast majority of these children stop talking about a previous life by the time they are 5 – 7 years old. This is the age at which children become involved with school and also the age at which they lose their memories of early childhood, and the talk about a past life fades along with those memories. Very rarely, the memories will persist into adolescence or adulthood, though with much less intensity than during the younger years. In many cases, however, as children get older they do not even remember that they ever talked about a past life.
Overall, parents often find children’s claims to remember previous lives more remarkable than do the children, for whom the apparent memories are simply part of their experience of life. The children then move on from the memories to lead typical childhoods.
Prenatal and Birth Memories
Some young children report memories from before or during their birth. In the case of reported memories before birth, some describe being aware of events that occurred when they were in the womb, while others talk about events from another realm or heaven.
Occasionally, young children describe parts of their birth process that their parents say they were not told about. While current understandings of infant memory do not allow for such memories to be possible, some children describe them nonetheless.
We would like to hear from families with reports such as these. See Contacting Us.
určite so synom nebudeme robiť žiadne pokusy. je to milý a bystrý chlapec a okrem tejto jednej zvláštnosti je všetko u neho v norme. je zdravý a optimistický, nebudeme nič riskovať. skôr ma zaujímalo, čo si mám myslieť o tej reinkarnácii. ja osobne žiadnu skúsenosť, ktorá by ju potvrdzovala, nemám. priznám sa, že sa mi tomu dosť ťažko verí. ale človek nikdy nevie, pravda? je toľko vecí medzi nebom a zemou.
ja som citala ze s takymito detmi nie je vhodne ist na regres
určite si nebrble žiadne nezrozumiteľné slová.sú to stále tie isté výrazy, už sme si to zapisovali, nikdy nepomenuje nejaký predmet iným slovom ako napr. pred pol rokom. a hovorí tým jazykom celkom plynule. len nevieme prísť na to, aký jazyk to je. veľmi detailne rozpráva aj o zážitkoch toho údajného predchádzajúceho života. ako keby čítal nejaký román z dávnej doby. niekedy to až naháňa strach.
A urcite to je nejaky jazyk???nemrmle si len nieco pod nosom???:D
sybyllus, preposlala som to este raz
existuje muz, ktory sa tymto zaobera, vola sa Ian Stevenson.
Podla toho, co som pocula, sa to u malych deti stava,len malokto im veri a tazko sa odlisuje pravda od fantazie. Casom na to sami zabudnu.
Skuste si kreslit o minulom zivote, mohlo by to byt zaujimave :) a ostane ti spomienka.